In this study, we examined the subjective narratives of two women in their early 30s who had experienced their parents’ divorce and were entering their early adulthood. We focused on the impact of their parents’ divorceon their lives and how their attitudes toward their parents’ divorce had changed, using Personal Attitude Construct (PAC) analysis. Approximately 13 years ago, we conducted a semi-structured interview survey onparental divorce with two research collaborators in their third year of college.
　　The results were examined from three perspectives: “the actualization of the question of marriage,” “the evaluation of fathers by adult daughters,” and “the meaning of talking about the experience of parental divorce as an adult.” Questions surrounding marriage become more realistic in early adulthood as people have more opportunities to witness the weddings of those close to them. We observed that sometimes, the experience of the collaborators’ parents’ divorce acted as a criterion for their own decisions, as they could see that they had the option of marrying and then divorcing.
　　In addition, we found that a father’s inconsiderate attitude and behavior undermines the trust between father and daughter, and results in the father not being respected as a human being by his daughter. We also found that once a grown “child” of a divorce is regarded as an adult, their parent may talk to them about facts from the past, or they may be informed of their separated parents’ family relationships by the people around them. To confirm one’s mature self and integrate one’s own life trajectory surrounding one’s parents’ divorce, an adult may find it meaningful to acquire multifaceted information and new perceptions related to one’s parents’ divorce and to talk to others about their experiences.

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　　The authors visited the Norwegian NAV (Norwegian Department of Labor and Welfare) in August 2023 to conduct interviews about the financial support system for divorced families. A noteworthy point in the Norwegian divorce data is that “shared residence” of children by parents has reached 43% in 2020. Even in the case of arrangements where the children live with one parent, visitation averaged 7.7 days per month in 2020. The main pillars of the post-divorce financial support system are “the transitional benefit,” “the extended child benefit,” and “the cash for care benefit”. Of these, “the extended child benefit” and “the cash for care benefit” are equally distributed when parents agree to “shared residence” of their children. Regarding child support, the NAV serves as the contact point for calculation of child support, advance payment of child support, and collection of child support, thus establishing a support system that prevents financial problems for children after their parents’ divorce.

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