This article illustrates the process of how families of a non-heterosexual struggle and overcome it by focusing on roles as mother.
Interviewing families of a non-heterosexual member unveils that, in particular, mothers of a non-heterosexual daughter struggle over “family collapse” when they are came out. Therefore, I examine the meaning of “family collapse” to mothers and the roles they take on to avoid it. In consequence, for those mothers who had constructed their identity around raising their child and establishing a family, they feel their previous roles as well as their identity as a mother are threatened when facing the fact that their child is not “normal,”
i.e. non-heterosexual. In order for mothers to believe that they can avoid “family collapse,” they take on an “adjustment role” to justify their previous roles and reconstruct their identity as a mother. These behaviors can be perceived as a conservative aspect of their role. However, the new roles they actively take on result in creating a new family style, “families with a non-heterosexual member,” that could challenge heteronormativity and homophobia in “modern families.”
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