The present study examined the relation between siblings' negative feelings about their brothers and sisters with disabilities and their expectation of support from their parents. First, siblings of individuals with disabilities (
N=335, age range from elementary school to adult) completed questionnaires regarding their feelings about their brothers and sisters with disabilities and their expectations of support from their parents. Second, on the basis of results from those questionnaires, parent-sibling sets who had low (
n=7) and high (
n=5) negative feelings were interviewed. The siblings were interviewed about support from their parents and their relationship with their parents; the parents were interviewed about raising their sons and daughters. ANOVA of the questionnaire results revealed that the siblings' expectations of support from their parents were independently associated with negative feelings about their brothers and sisters with disabilities, regardless of the following factors: birth order, age, and type of disability. The mean negative feeling of the siblings expecting a high level of support from their parents was significantly lower than that in the siblings with low expectations for support. The interview results showed qualitative differences between the siblings who were high and low on negative feelings in expected support from their parents and in relationships with their parents. Compared to the siblings with low negative feelings, the siblings with high negative feelings reported a lack of consultation with their parents regarding problems and poor relations with their fathers. The parents of the siblings with low negative feelings supported the siblings by accepting their thoughts and feelings, whereas the parents of the siblings with high negative feelings supported the siblings by teaching them about the disabilities that their brothers and sisters had. These results suggest that a sibling support program for siblings and parents might help promote acceptable and supportive family relations.
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