Abstract
It is said that the interpersonal relationship, especially friendship of a modern youth will be made lack. On the other hand, it is assumed that the new figure of intimate that called “a selective relation"has been invented by having changed into the ego structure to have the figure of the“two or more circle with two or more centers"by two or more researches.
In the main discourse, the meaning of “Selection"in this friendship was analyzed from the result of the questionnaire survey intended for the high school student in Hokkaido “A"city that had gone in 2006 and 2009. Consequentially, the difference of relations was confirmed that “the selection"of friendship is not related to the lack relation, but “the selection"of self-identity is related to that.
In the sense of self, the change from 2006 to 2009 that the establishment of the self was not the one that conflicted with own plurals and undecided was confirmed.
However, it isnʼt due to “the selection"of self-identity. It is due to own “stance"of self-identity that as undecided establish.
