Previous experiences of Japanese children with parents who have a mental illness, and their consultation situation at school: A survey of grown-up children

Abstract

Objectives　The purpose of this study was to understand the experience of grown-up children with parents suffering from mental illness during their elementary, junior high, and high school years, and the consultation situations at their schools.

Methods　A web-based questionnaire survey was conducted on 240 grown-up children who had participated in groups for children with parents suffering from mental illness. The analysis was a simple tabulation and compared the consultation history inside and outside the school environment, according to the respondent's age. Free-response descriptions were categorized according to the content.

Results　A total of 120 respondents answered, ranging in age from 20 to over 50 years, with the majority being women (85.8%). Their mothers were the most likely parent to suffer from a mental illness (67.5%), and their estimated age at illness onset was before entering elementary school (73.1%).

　During their elementary, junior high, and high school years, 57.8-61.5% of the respondents provided emotional care, and 29.7-32.1% did household chores. When they were in elementary school, most recognized adult fights (62.4%) and experienced attacks by parents (51.4%). Signs that others could have noticed included the fact that parents did not visit the school or talk to teachers, being bullied, forgetfulness, absenteeism, arriving late for school, and academic deterioration. Nearly half of the respondents (43.2-55.0%) hid their challenges during their elementary, junior high, and high school years. They were aware of teachers’ prejudice towards mental illness, discriminatory behavior, and lack of consideration for privacy. At the same time, many respondents wanted teachers to be concerned about their circumstances and listen to their stories.

　More than half of the respondents (62.7-80.7%) did not approach school staff, who did not notice their problems. When they were high school students, they had an inadequate consultation environment or were unprepared to consult. The easiest person to approach was the teacher in charge.

Conclusion　Children with parents suffering from a mental illness were those most in need of support, while being the least connected to sources of support. Schools need to support children to become aware of their problems at home, and teachers need to pay more attention to their students, and listen to them carefully, including to what they may not say.