2018 年 32 巻 1 号 p. 14-28
The aim of this research was to ascertain the process by which a child forms a new relationship with a non-custodial parent after a divorce. Semi-structured interviews were conducted with 15 adults whose parents divorced at age 18 or younger and who continued to visit their non-custodial parent. Interview data were analyzed using a modified grounded theory approach.
Results indicated that there are 2 processes by which a child forms a new relationship with a non-custodial parent through visits: 1) The child forms a stable relationship with the non-custodial parent, or 2) The child forms an unstable relationship with the non-custodial parent. In both processes, the child ultimately forms “A relationship with a parent as he or she is” as the child matures. However, results suggested that a child with a stable relationship with a non-custodial parent copes better with object loss after a divorce. During early visits, a child needs to feel loved but not smothered by a non-custodial parent. This is achieved through “A dependable relationship like that with one's grandparents.” Such a relationship needs to be formed in order for the child to form a stable relationship with his or her non-custodial parent.