The idea of the modern family, which became a prevalent family configuration in and after the Meiji era (1868–1912), regards the family as private territory, transforming it into a sacred cow and isolating it from the community. In this study, semi-structured interviews were conducted with five specialists working in agencies dealing with child abuse, from January to August 2015. We gained insights into nine cases of child abuse, where the abused child came from households deeply ingrained in this modern family ideology. This ideology espouses a family based on a strict gender based division of labor, for example, the belief that it is the mother who is responsible for taking care of a child. Accordingly, this family ideology can place emotional pressure on the mother by suggesting that a mother who does not embrace her role as the primary caregiver doesn’t love her child, or by implying that it is only natural for mothers to love their child.
In this paper, an analysis is conducted on how this ideology becomes a psychological burden for mothers, and how it impacts child rearing. Using a grounded theory approach, fifteen subcategories were identified to explore the model of the modern family and its association with child abuse. Full-time mothers experience pressure to conform to this modern family ideology and to present themselves externally as functioning happily. Internally, however, they experience constant pressure to meet these expectations and to perform their specific gender roles. This can lead to mothers experiencing a void where they feel that they do not have control over the mechanisms of their own family and take action to escape reality away from the gaze of modern society.
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