Objective: To clarify the emotions of working mothers who supported daughters to give birth in their hometown.
Methods: Eight working mothers, who had supported daughters to give birth in their hometown, were examined through semi-structured interviews after the daughters' deliveries in a single hospital. The obtained data were qualitatively and inductively analyzed. The study was approved by the Ethics Committee of Kagawa University Faculty of Medicine.
Results: While the working mothers desire to help their daughters as they were helped by their parents when they gave birth, they were anxious about such support, but they were finally prepared “to support the daughters to give birth in their hometowns with other family members”. However, when the daughters actually returned to their hometowns, and the mothers' daily lives completely changed, they found it “burdensome to support the daughters while working”. After the daughter's delivery, their daily lives returned to normal, and they felt “relieved while developing a sense of loneliness due to ending of support”. On the other hand, the daughter's appreciative statement and positive attitude toward parenting led to their “satisfaction with the personal growth of the daughter and oneself having fulfilled her role as a mother”.
Discussion: The working mothers felt conflicted about the necessity of supporting their daughters while working. However, being appreciated by the daughters who had grown personally, they felt relieved and satisfied, as they may have realized that they had fulfilled their role as a mother.
Conclusion: The working mothers found it burdensome to provide support while working, but they felt relieved and satisfied when they were appreciated by their daughters, who had grown personally.
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