News of child abuse has become more frequent in recent years, as yet another manifestation of the stresses and strains in modern society. Such news is particularly shocking when it involves abuse inflicted by a child’s own parents. As an example, in one case a housewife in her early thirties habitually became irritated with her four-year-old daughter, and instead of calmly voicing her displeasure, beat the child physically. At the same time, this young woman was reluctant to do household chores, hardly ever cleaning or cooking. It is worth mentioning that this lady’s society, that of urban western Japan, is still remarkably traditional in expecting a wife and mother to both work hard within the home and to be virtually the sole educator and counselor for each child. This poor woman’s behavior disintegrated to the point of, on many days, not even supplying her daughter with sufficient food. In addition, she was constantly having arguments with her husband and they were on the verge of divorce. However, seven days of intensive Naikan Therapy allowed her to realize how much her parents had loved her. and still loved her. This awareness and acceptance helped resolve deeply-entrenched negative emotions she had held toward them. As a result, a profound appreciation for her husband and child emerged, and physical abuse ceased. Clearly, such welcome and dramatic improvement in both family relations and childrearing is clearly a positive effect of Naikan Therapy.
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