In this study, the mindset of care-giving spouse was investigated via a qualitative approach to determine supportive and hindering factors affecting their will to continue home care in order to throw light on situations where care of one elderly spouse by another is carried out at home. Eight factors supporting this will to continue were established, being a “feeling that the care is worthwhile”, “attachment to the cared for spouse”, a “feeling of affection”, a “feeling of devotion”, “obligation to the cared for spouse”, “peace of mind”, a “means of diversion”, and “lack of a feeling of burden”. “Attachment to the cared for spouse” and the “feeling of affection” were both considered to support the feeling of self-sacrifice, or the “feeling of devotion”. The “feeling that the care is worthwhile” was considered to directly support the will to continue home care of the spouse.
On the other hand, six factors that hindered the will to continue home care were established, being a “feeling of irritation”, a “sense of despair”, a “sense of hopelessness”, “anxiety”, “loneliness”, and a “hemmed-in feeling”. The “feeling of irritation” was considered to be a factor directly hindering the will to continue spousal home care. It was conjectured that caregivers conduct home care with conflicting feelings of obligation born of a reaction to the “sense of hopelessness”, and the “feeling of devotion”. This study indicated the necessity of having nursing staff involved in the home care in such a manner that the care-giving spouse him/herself can confirm the effects of his/her care, thus reducing the burden on that spouse caused by feelings of self-sacrifice.
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