A longitudinal study examined personality changes in self-concept, self-esteem and potential self of 68 married couples during their transition to parenthood. After becoming parents, wives reported feeling more "irritable" than did husbands. There were no gender differences in reports of pre-/post-parenthood changes on other self-concept scales, such as "activity," "emotional instability," "immaturity," "nervousness," "nurturance." These results suggest that self-concept was comparatively stable during the transition to parenthood. Total change scores for self- concept among wives were related to confused feelings about physical and mental changes during pregnancy, and total change scores of husbands were related to negative potential self-image and educational background. Women's self-esteem decreased after becoming mothers, while males' self-esteem was stable over time. There were also changes in the proportions of three aspects of self ("social self," "husband/wife self," and "paternal/maternal self"). Specifically, there was a significant increase in the proportion of men's "social self" after becoming fathers, and a significant decrease in the proportion of women's "social self" following the child's birth. Finally, the proportion of "maternal self" aspect increased over time, while the proportion of "paternal self" aspect was unchanged.
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